Who said life was comfortable and accomplishing your goals would be a smooth journey? Nobody! All of us know that good things do not come easy, so why do we feel as though we have been hit by a truck when challenges approach us? Improving your lifestyle and bettering your life in general is a long process.
And the most important lesson is never compare yourself to others! Be confident and proud of your goals. That is a habit of a high-value woman.
No matter how big or small your project is, it will be hard executing it and you WILL face obstacles!
Usually what happens is a lot of things get delayed and loads of technical issues come about. That does not include life obstacles that slow down the process even more. Sometimes you can be feeling indecisive, have no patience, be a perfectionist and constantly overthink things which will really slow you down. If you can lead with confidence, that’s always the best approach.
When you dedicate yourself to a project that is important to you, you often will have to face your demons and weaknesses. You become your own worst enemy at times. The external factors that you can not control are frustrating, but adding on your own issues makes it even worse. You might want to give up many times. I was close to giving up when things were not working, and when more and more obstacles came my way.
You hear about how nothing comes easy in life, and you kind of understand that on some level. But you are never really prepared for the number of obstacles that you actually end up facing. One or two are expected, but when you get 10 or more you truly feel like giving up! That’s usually when people throw in their towel and say adios. You have to stay focused on improving your lifestyle.
Most of the time people are not ready to face hardship. Some parts of your journey will be painless, but others parts will be painful. It is important to remind yourself of your goals and your purpose to overcome those painful times. How badly do you want this? People who want something badly enough, are the ones who become successful in the end. People who have other priorities, tend to fail. Patience is key.
Executing your goals is all about patience.
If you do not have that, then you are up for a challenge as you will suffer a lot in the process like I did. It will push you to all your limits and you are either going to want to give up or get yourself together.
I do not want to discourage anyone. It is quite the opposite in fact. I encourage everyone to keep going! Once you have gone through all the hurdles, you grow so much confidence and get a rush of happiness because you finally did it! You can finally check your boxes and you know you have accomplished what you wanted. You feel anything is possible and you have learned so much from it. With these lessons, you know that you are now fully prepared to take on even more difficult challenges because you have experience. How exciting is that?
My point is just to be realistic and prepared for what is about to come, and do not let it break you down.
Never compare your goals to others. It will be a difficult journey with many obstacles. Your patience will get tested, and also your desire for how much you want this. Elegant ladies always lead with confidence and never compare themselves.
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